A custom bridge over a tropical-style pool. Gold structures draped in white roses. And every single guest already on the property. No hotel check-ins, no shuttle schedules, no goodbyes at 10 PM.
Model Ashley Alexiss didn't want a six-hour reception. She wanted a weekend. She had been through heartbreak and loss, and then came the kind of signs that make you believe again. Her late father promised to send lighthouses; Brodie turned out to have one tattooed on his wrist. She found her person, then she went looking for the place. In June 2026, she and Brodie married on a 40-acre San Diego estate they had entirely to themselves.
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★★★★★ "Cannot thank the WedStay team enough. Our wedding weekend at the 40-acre San Diego estate was a dream. The entire property to ourselves, our closest people all staying together for the whole weekend instead of a few rushed hours, and pricing we could actually trust. Marrying Brodie surrounded by everyone we love, on one stunning property, was everything I pictured and more." Ashley & Brodie Married June 2026 · 40-Acre San Diego Estate |
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Valley Center, California 40-Acre San Diego Luxury Private Resort| 150 Guests | Sleeps 40 | From $9,900+ |
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Five private homes across 40 acres. Fourteen bedrooms for 40 overnight guests, and room for 150 at the ceremony and reception. A resort-style pool and jacuzzi, gym, yoga studio, tennis and basketball courts, and private hiking trails. The venue and the lodging in one place, entirely yours for the weekend.
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Homes 5 | Bedrooms 14 | Guests 150 | From $9,900+ |
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Inside Their WeekendThree days on one property, instead of a few rushed hours. |
 | Night One: The Pizza Party
No seating chart, no formal pressure. A laid-back pizza party so everyone could settle in and reconnect before the big day, from family who'd flown in to friends meeting for the first time.
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 | The Wedding Day
An outdoor ceremony built around a custom bridge over the tropical-style pool, gold structures draped in white roses, and deeply personal touches most venues would never allow. Their day, their way, on their own timeline.
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 | Day Three: The Pool Party
The weekend didn't end at midnight. A pool-party send-off closed it out the next day, the kind of slow, lingering goodbye you only get when the whole celebration lives on one property.
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Photography by Ariele Photography |
The Whole Property, Privately: all 40 acres to themselves, no shared grounds, no other events |
Everyone Stays Together: 40 guests across five homes, the whole weekend, not a few hours |
Complete Vendor Freedom: their own planner, photographer, and full creative team |
Pricing They Could Trust: venue and lodging bundled into one number, no surprise fees |
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Their Full Story From Heartbreak to Happily Ever AfterThe lighthouse signs, the proposal, and the three-day weekend Ashley and Brodie designed, plus why they picked a private estate over a traditional venue. Read the Full Story |
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