How to Choose
Wedding Vendors
Select the best photographers, caterers, florists, and DJs with our vendor selection framework. Key questions, red flags, and WedStay marketplace access included.
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12 Essential Vendor Categories
Budget ranges and key questions for each vendor type. Use this as your vendor booking checklist.
Photography
$2,500-$4,500Ask: Experience shooting at venues like yours? Provide full-resolution images? How many hours included? Second shooter? Turnaround time?
Videography
$2,000-$4,000Ask: Highlight reel vs full footage? Drone included? Raw footage provided? Editing revisions? Delivery timeline?
Catering
$85-$140/guestAsk: Licensed for your venue? Tasting included? Service staff ratio? Bar service options? Dietary accommodations? Cake cutting fee?
Florals
$2,000-$5,000Ask: Portfolio of similar styles? Setup/breakdown included? Rental items (vases, arches)? Delivery fees? Refund policy for weather?
DJ/Entertainment
$1,200-$2,500Ask: Experience with your venue size? Backup equipment? Emcee services? Song request policy? Overtime rates?
Coordination
$1,500-$4,000Ask: Day-of vs month-of? Vendor communication? Rehearsal attendance? Emergency kit? Unlimited contact?
Hair & Makeup
$400-$1,200Ask: Bridal trial included? How many people can you service? Travel fees? Touch-up services? Product usage (airbrush vs traditional)?
Transportation
$600-$1,800Ask: Vehicle type and capacity? How many hours included? Driver gratuity included? Backup vehicle plan? Decorated for weddings?
Bakery
$400-$1,000Ask: Tasting included? Delivery and setup included? Cutting fee waived? Design revisions? Dietary options (gluten-free, vegan)?
Lighting & Decor
$1,500-$4,000Ask: Site visit required? Setup/strike included? Pin-spotting vs uplighting? Dance floor lighting? Outdoor lighting weatherproof?
Rentals
$1,000-$3,000Ask: What is included in linen package? China vs disposable? Delivery and pickup included? Damage waiver cost? Setup services available?
Invitations & Stationery
$400-$1,500Ask: Digital proofs before printing? RSVP tracking system? Envelope addressing? Timeline for production? Rush fees?
Budget Allocation Tip: Photography and catering should be your top budget priorities - you will look at photos forever, and guests remember the food/drinks most. Allocate 40% of total budget to these two categories, then distribute remaining 60% across other vendors based on your priorities.
Vendor Red Flags vs Green Flags
Know what to watch for when evaluating wedding vendors. These warning signs and positive indicators help you avoid disasters and book reliable professionals.
Red Flags
No written contract
No legal protection if vendor cancels or fails to deliver
Requests 100% payment upfront
Standard is 25-50% deposit, remaining on/after event
Cannot provide references or reviews
May be inexperienced or hiding negative feedback
No liability insurance
You could be held responsible for accidents or damages
Poor communication or slow responses
Indicates how they will behave during your planning
Portfolio does not match your style
Unlikely to deliver the aesthetic you want
50%+ cheaper than competitors
Often indicates inexperience, hidden fees, or low quality
No backup plan for emergencies
Equipment failure or illness could ruin your day
Green Flags
Detailed written contract with cancellation policy
Standard deposit (25-50%) with payment schedule
4.5+ star reviews with 20+ verified testimonials
Portfolio matching your style with recent work
Responds to inquiries within 24-48 hours
Proof of liability insurance ($1-2M coverage)
Industry certifications or professional associations
Clear backup/contingency plans documented
Trust Your Instincts
If something feels off during vendor meetings, listen to that instinct. Professional vendors make you feel confident, excited, and supported - never pressured or uncertain.
10 Essential Questions for Each Vendor
Ask these specific questions during vendor consultations to uncover experience level, hidden fees, and how they handle problems. Copy these lists to your phone before vendor meetings.
Photographer Interview Questions
How many weddings have you photographed at venues like ours (mansion/estate)?
Do you provide full-resolution images with no watermarks?
What is your turnaround time for edited photos (4-6 weeks is standard)?
Is a second shooter included, or is that an additional cost?
Can we see full galleries from 3 recent weddings, not just highlight reels?
What happens if you are sick or have an emergency on our wedding day?
Do you provide raw/unedited files? (Most photographers do not)
How many hours of coverage are included, and what are overtime rates?
What is your editing style - light and airy, moody, true-to-color?
Do you handle group shot organization, or do we need a day-of coordinator?
Pro Tip: Take notes during each consultation and ask if you can record the conversation (with permission). Professional vendors will have clear, confident answers to all these questions. Hesitation, vague responses, or irritation at being asked are red flags.
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Vendor Booking Timeline
When to book each vendor type for the best selection and pricing. Start with venue, then follow this timeline to secure your dream team.
12-18 Months Out
Top pros book 12-24 months ahead for peak season. These vendors influence your entire timeline and are hardest to replace.
10-12 Months Out
Major budget items that require significant planning. Caterers need lead time for tastings and menu finalization.
8-10 Months Out
Florists need time to order seasonal flowers. Coordinators help manage remaining vendor bookings.
6-8 Months Out
Popular artists book up, but more flexibility than photography. Schedule trials 2-3 months before wedding.
4-6 Months Out
Shuttle buses and limo services available with shorter lead times. Interview officiants for ceremony fit.
2-4 Months Out
Finalize rentals (tables, chairs, linens, specialty items) and smaller details like favors, signage, programs.
Book Venue First, Then Photographer
Your venue and photographer are the two most important bookings that influence everything else. Lock these in before making other vendor decisions.
Peak Season vs Off-Season Booking
These timelines apply to peak wedding season (May-October Saturdays). Off-season weddings (November-April, weekdays) have more vendor availability with 3-6 months shorter lead times. However, top photographers and videographers still book 12+ months out regardless of season.
Vendor Contract Checklist
Every vendor contract must include these 10 elements. Never sign a contract missing these items or pay a deposit without a written agreement.
Must-Have Clauses
Services provided
Exact deliverables, hours of coverage, number of staff, specific products included
Total cost breakdown
Itemized pricing showing base fee, add-ons, taxes, gratuity, and any potential additional charges
Payment schedule
Deposit amount and due date, remaining payment amounts and dates (typical: 50% deposit, 50% 2 weeks before)
Cancellation policy
Refund percentages based on cancellation timing, postponement options, force majeure clause
Vendor backup plan
What happens if vendor is sick/emergency, who provides substitute, is replacement of equal quality guaranteed
Delivery timeline
When you will receive photos, video, or other deliverables (be specific: "8 weeks" not "soon")
Ownership & usage rights
Who owns photos/video, can you share on social media, will vendor use in portfolio, print release included
Liability insurance
Proof of general liability insurance (venue requirement), coverage amounts, certificate of insurance provided
Setup & breakdown
Who handles setup/teardown, timing requirements, venue access needs, cleanup responsibility
Overtime & changes
Hourly rate for extra time, how to request day-of changes, guest count change policy
Dangerous Clauses
"Vendor reserves right to substitute services"
Risk: You could get different photographer, DJ, or coordinator than you met with
"No refunds under any circumstances"
Risk: Even if vendor cancels on you, you lose all money paid
"Vendor can use your photos for any purpose"
Risk: Your wedding photos could appear in ads, marketing, or sold to stock photo sites
"Final pricing determined day-of event"
Risk: Unlimited surprise charges with no recourse since event already happened
"Vendor not liable for any damages"
Risk: If vendor damages venue or injures guest, you could be held responsible
What to Do: If you see these clauses, ask vendor to revise or remove them. Professional vendors will negotiate fair terms. If they refuse to modify unreasonable clauses, find a different vendor - these are major red flags indicating they do not protect clients.
Contract Review Tips
Before Signing:
- • Read entire contract - do not skim or skip sections
- • Ask questions about anything unclear or vague
- • Request changes to unfair or one-sided terms
- • Have partner/parent review before signing
- • Never sign blank contracts or agreements with TBD pricing
After Signing:
- • Keep signed contract in wedding binder or digital folder
- • Take photo/scan and email copy to yourself as backup
- • Share relevant contracts with coordinator for reference
- • Review contracts again 1 month before wedding
- • Bring contracts to venue on wedding day for coordinator
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